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KICK START YOUR 2018 WITH THESE JANUARY MUST-HAVE ITEMS

EDITOR FAVORITES January 06, 2018

HOW TO KICK START YOUR NEW YEAR AND SET THE RIGHT GOALS

January is finally here! That means it's time to get our heads in gear and look at the year ahead!
Now, January can be a very long and dreary month, and somewhat of an anti-climax, particularly after the festivities of the Christmas holiday season!

So with that in mind, I've selected 10 tidbits ranging from that compulsory goals planner down to the "Meghan Markle Effect" Belted Coat to keep the winter chills at bay, and hopefully that'll make your start of the year 2018 that much more bearable.

1/10 Goals Journal

Get in the spirit of New Beginnings and use this KiKi.K Goals Journal to document what you really want to accomplish in 2018

Kikki.K Goals Journal, €24.50 from John Lewis

2/10 She Means Business: Turn Your Ideas into Reality and Become a Wildly Successful Entrepreneur By: Carrie Green

Must read inspiring book for anyone who wants to get things done this year and really become a successful entrepreneur. Available from Amazon

3/10 GIRL BOSS MUG

Pink Girl Boss Mug, £10.99 from Amazon

Because if you're going to be a #GirlBoss you better have a Girl Boss mug to commemorate that, don't you think?!

4/10 The "Meghan Markle Effect" Belted Coat

Cream Faux Fur Belted Coat, €120,00 from River Island

Look the business and emulate meghan Markle in this Cream faux fur collar belted robe coat from River Island

[RELATED ARTICLE: T op Tips To Nail Your January Fashion Style]

5/10 BLOGGER KIT

Lauren Lancaster Blog Media Kit, €14,99 from our Create With Faith Store

If one of your new year's resolutions is to start working with brands and increase your blog's income , then this LM blogger kit is must-have. Fully customizable, and ready to be used!

6/10 ADIDAS GAZELLE SNEAKERS

Adidas Original Gazelle Sneakers, 113,00 from Schuh

Forget your heels and give your feet a bit of a break by opting for these stunning Adidas Gazelle sneakers in grey!

Great for a that jeans+sneakers paired back off duty look, don't you think?!

[RELATED ARTICLE: What's On our Editor's Wish List For This Winter Season]

7/10 THE HAPPINESS PLANNER

The Happiness Planner,€44,89 from www.thehappinnessplanner.com

Last week I posted about "How to plan for a more happier you in 2018" as opposed to making new year's resolutions, and this happiness planner is the perfect accompaniment to that plan if you want to be a more happier you in 2018.

This planner is designed to help you create more happiness and fulfillment in life by embracing the power of positive thinking, mindfulness, gratitude, and self-development.

8/10 VITAMIN NECTOR MOISTURE GLOW FACE CREAM

Vitamin Nector Moisture Glow Face Cream, £39,00 from www.fresh.com

Beat that post-Christmas dry flaky, under nourished skin with this Vitamin Nector Moisture glow face cream with this revitalizing formula that awakens dull skin for an incredibly vibrant, healthy-looking glow.

[RELATED ARTICLE: Boost your Skin's Radiance With These Natural Face Masks]

And there you have it! 8 of my favorite must-have items that are a definite must-have for getting through the month of January 2018!

What is your must-have item at the moment? Let me know in the comments section below.

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HOW TO PLAN FOR A MORE HAPPIER YOU IN 2018

CULTURE January 01, 2018

The new year is finally here and with it comes the proverbial clean slate that ultimately affords us the opportunity to do it all again.

This is that time of the year when we embrace new beginnings, set ourselves some new goals and aim to try it all again, but harder or better this time.

So We tend to set unrealistic goals veiled as new years resolutions, which inevitably can put enormous pressure to do it all right, even at the expense of our happiness.

But how about instead of planning for success, you instead take the resolve to be a more happier you instead?!

And here's why: a more happier you is the you that will want to kick ass in every single thing you do because happiness allows us the ability to be bolder, more courageous and definitely more passionate about whatever it is we do in life!

And here's a few simple things to remember that will help you be a more happier you in 2018...

1. MAKE ROOM FOR ALLOWANCES

By that i mean, try not to be so hard on yourself if/or when things don't go your way and instead learn to recignise minor set backs as important learning curves necessary for your future development and ultimate success!
Doing this will then help alleviate the pressure to be perfect, to succeed, or even pressure to achieving each and every single one of your set goals!

[RELATED ARTICLE: 5 Truths To Remember When Everything's Going Wrong In Your Life]

2. CELEBRATE THE TINY WINS

Yes; instead of only celebrating those major life wins, which can sometimes be few and far between; learn to also celebrate life's mundane tiny wins too.
This could be putting on make-up as opposed to roughing it in pj's all day, or waking up an hour early to clear out your inbox, or even carving out time to meet a friend for coffee. Doing so is incredibly good for your self-esteem as this will help reprogramme your brain in a way that'll make you see yourself as a winner and in control of your life, which in turn, will help you be a more happier you in 2018.

3. LEARN TO ACCEPT THAT FAILURE IS INEVITABLE

Here's the thing: no one likes to fail. No one! That's why failure can be seen as this taboo event because when we do fail, we tend to take it too hard and too personally forgetting the fact that the whole point of failure is to teach us to learn from our mistakes and to try to do better next time. And here's another thing about failure; it teaches us perseverance, gives us strength, and forces us to be gritty. It toughens us up for life's future challenges because lord knows there's always a few challenges on the horizon - it's part of life.

So when you do fail next time, just accept it, no matter how painful it may be, and know that there's an invaluable lesson within that failure!

4. DO NOT SEE YOURSELF AS THE GIRL (OR GUY) WHO'S FAILED AT THIS OR THAT, BUT RATHER IDENTIFY YOURSELF AS THE GIRL WITH UNTAPPED POTENTIAL

I say that because sometimes we (myself included) as humans tend to define ourselves by our mistakes or failures rather than our triumphs. For example, you could be someone who never finished school, so therefore you see and call yourself the drop-out! Don't do that because you make it harder for yourself to achieve that thing that you really want to be the most. So learn to identify yourself positively - it will do you a world of good, I promise!

[RELATED ARTICLE: Remember These 5 Empowering Truths To Get Your Over Your Fear Of Failure]

5. LET GO OF PAST MISTAKES

Forget the could haves, would haves and should haves and instead live in the here and now because guess what: everything under the sun happens for a reason. All those mistakes you did were in fact part of your journey and yours alone, and to be honest, they could be the making of you - you just don't know it yet!

So you never applied for that job - forget about it! There'll be other jobs in the future!
So you never told him you liked him - so what?! If you're meant to be together you'll find a way!
The point is: don't worry about all those things you think you did wrong because tomorrow is yet another day, and 2018 is yet another year!

So here's to you being a much happier you and having a more fulfilled 2018!

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5 STEP GUIDE TO COMPLETE BLOGGING SUCCESS IN 2018

BLOGGING & TIPS December 29, 2017

I think you'll agree that nowadays blogging websites are fast becoming trusted mediums of sharing news, learning, as well as a respectable way of earning a living.
That's why more and more people are quiting the mundane 9-5 grind for blogging because blogging has finally earned the respect it rightfully deserves as a viable career option.

But I think you'll also agree that having a blog is one thing, while running a "successful blog" is quite another.
And a lot of us out there are definitely on the hope of running a successful blog, especially in 2018 when blogging competition is set to be quite fierce. Meaning that only the best blogs with the best branding, the best ux (user experience) , the best social media strategy, and the best content (yes content is still king!) will do. And that means there's no room for error because readers have become quite adept at deciphering mediocres from the greats!

But how, you wonder, does one go about preparing for complete blogging success in 2018? What are the 5 things to get right in order to do so?!

Read on to find out...

1/5 UPDATE THE LOOK & DESIGN OF YOUR BLOG RIGHT NOW!

Design is one of those things that's ever growing, ever mutating, and definitely ever changing! That's why being on top of design trends in so far as your blog's look, appearance and user experience will be one of the top things to get right in 2018 if you want to ensure blogging success because it'll stem from your readers having an amazing experience every time they visit your blog. And obviously this will then translate into your site being more professional, and therefore as a trusted source of gaining information, being entertained or learning something new!

It's crazy but that's how much design matters, especially in the digitized world we're now finding ourselves living in!

So give your blog look and design a bit of a revamp! And if that means updating your blog theme template, then so be it because the rewards will definitely be innumerable.

Finding a new template shouldn't be a problem as there are a myriad number of templates providers out there, some free, and while others are paid-for! So no matter your budget, you should definitely find a suitable theme for you.

And if this sounds like something you'd like to do to enhance your blog, I'd definitely suggest EasyBlog Themes as your go-to!

They have awesome, WordPress themes and plugins ideal for both new bloggers and seasoned ones too! And as an added bonus, they are currently offering a "Big New Year's Treat" which entails offering any premium template for as low as $19.50 . But if that's too much for you, they even have a few themes for FREE if you can't afford buying a theme at the moment.

For more on this head over HERE!

2/5 GET TO KNOW YOUR NICHE - YOUR TRIBE!

Having a specific, yes SPECIFIC set of people that your blog is focused towards is huge if you want to accelerate your blogging efforts into complete success in 2018.

Because here's the thing: choosing a niche for your blog is that one move that will give your blog a focus and direction whilst also giving you - the Blog's Editor a clear anchor from which to create content from because you'll be clear on WHAT kind of content to create and WHO you're creating it for! And that's invaluable, especially when it comes to planning your content calendar for the week, month or even for the year 2018!

If you want to really get to know your tribe then I seriously suggest you read "the importance of narrowing down a niche and a focus for your blog." we wrote about a while back because you'll learn how to come up with a niche for your blog, why it's important to come up with a niche, plus basic questions to ask yourself that'll help you to find your tribe!

3/5 GET ON BOARD WITH BLOGGER COLLABORATION

Blogger collaboration is great in all aspects! It's one of those things you can do that can end-up putting your name out there to readers you wouldn't have been able to reach otherwise. And let me tell, getting your name out there is key my friend because it's one of those crucial ingredients to complete blogging success!

And blogger collaboration can take many forms - it can be you teaming up with another blogger to create a webinar on blogging tips, or it can simply be guest posting for one of your blogger friends.

If you don't have blogger friends yet and you'd like to guest post, why not start guest-posting for us?! We're always on the look-out for submissions from our fellow bloggers and this can be a great way to help you on your blogger collaboration journey.

For more info, check out our link HERE for submission proposals.

4/5 UP YOUR AFFILIATE MARKETING GAME!

And now let's talk about blog monetization!

Listen, it's all great creating content day in and day out because you love it, but there's gonna be a point where I'm sure you'd like to be rewarded for your blogging efforts - this is where affiliate marketing comes in!

As a blogger I'm sure by now you're aware of great affiliate marketing programmes out there, our favorites being ShareaSale, Ratuken Affiliate, And VigLink!

If you're new to blogging and don't know how to start monetizing your blog and making money with affiliate marketing, we wrote a detailed post on How To Start Making Money & Passive Income Using Affiliate Marketing programmes HERE, so do check it out!

5/5 CREATE VALUABLE CONTENT!

One of the most important aspects of blogging definitely has to be creating content for your readers! I mean, after all,isn't that the whole point of blogging - to create content?!

Now it's one thing creating content and it's quite another when you create valuable content that just keeps your readers coming back for more!

Now your content could be a variation of video, copy, and/or amazing graphics! Whatever it is you tend to create, make sure it's on point and not at all mediocre because when it's all said and done, your readers will always come back to you if they know and trust the value that your content provides!

[RELATED ARTICLE: How To Attract Brand Sponsorship Opportunities If You're A Micro-Influencer]

Now over to you! What is it that you're currently doing for your blog that you think will help your blog be more successful?

Let me know in the comments section below.

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THE 7 PARTY DRESSES YOU NEED FOR THIS CHRISTMAS SEASON

AUTUMN/WINTER FASHION November 29, 2017

Look, Christmas right now is like the elephant in the room - we all know it's coming and yet no one wants to admit it, at least not before December 1st!

But here's the thing: it's coming, along with those fun festive parties and get-togethers! Which means, you need to sort out your Christmas wardrobe fast!

1/7 DRESS FOR THE OFFICE CHRISTMAS PARTY

Choosing a dress for the office party can be quite tricky because you obviously want to wow your work colleagues without being too inappropriate, you know?! That's why this Red Fringed Dress from Oasis is ideal for your office Christmas party. It's subtle, party-ready, and definitely packs a punch in the style stakes so much so that it needs little to no accessories! This is the kind of dress that you'll put it on and it will just do the talking!

2/7 DRESS FOR A NIGHT OUT WITH THE GIRLS

If this One Shoulder Sequin Mini Bodycon Dress doesn't say "Party" I don't know what will!

This is an ideal dress for partying the night away with your closest girl pals this festive season.

It's gold. It's short. It's Party Perfect!

What's not to love about it?!

3/7 DRESS FOR GOING ON A PUB CRAWL

Yes, we all know it wouldn't be Christmas without going on the obligatory pub crawl - which, to be honest, can be fun.

But moving from one pub to another will require wearing something practical, cute, and yet warm enough to protect you from the elements. That means a short, sparkly sequence dress will definitely NOT suffice! But this Slash Sleeve Rib Knit Dress from Warehouse will!

4/7 DRESS FOR DRINKS WITH THE FAMILY

This dress doesn't have to be a wow, statement piece because you're going out with your family, but it still needs to be festive enough to still partake in the festive celebrations. And this Floral Wrap Dress from Mango will be just perfect for drinks with the family, don't you think?!

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5/7 DRESS FOR A FIRST DATE

Now, if you're lucky enough to be going on a first date during this Christmas season, keep a little bit of mystery and intrigue - and that appliers to your choice of outfit!

I mean you obviously want to wow him, but don't do it by wearing something too obvious. Hence this black velvet dress will be kind of perfect for the occasion! You'll be amazed by how something simple, and covered can pack in the style stakes - like this velvet dress from Oasis!

6/7 DRESS FOR CHRISTMAS EVE

Christmas Eve is that one day when you don't necessarily have to wear red - so this black tuxedo style mini dress will be perfect for the occasion. Style it with a pair of ankle boots and bare legs if you dare to brave the cold weather, or, alternatively, you can put on a pair of tights (stockings) to keep warm!

7/7 YOUR CHRISTMAS DAY DRESS

Your Christmas day dress will not need to be too overtly sexy because chances are: you'll be starting the day off by going to church followed by enjoying the festivities with your family.
So, this dress has to be both stylish AND roomy to allow you to eat and drink to your heart's content! After all, isn't that what Christmas is all about?!
You can shop this Pleated Velvet Dress from Oasis HERE!

[RELATED ARTICLE: The Do's And Don'ts At Your Office Christmas Party]

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THE DO's AND DON'Ts AT YOUR OFFICE CHRISTMAS PARTY

HOLIDAYS November 09, 2017

Oh Christmas Parties....! Love them or loath them, they are that beloved yearly traditional office get-together that everyone in the office looks on with great anticipation during this time of the year.

You've all worked so hard during the year and this is the one time that you get to forget the stresses of keeping deadlines and so forth, and just let your hair down and party with your coworkers like there's no tomorrow!

It is that one event that is particularly talked about months afterwards, even after the event itself has long gone - this is that work even that you reminisce about who wore what, who left early and who got waaaaaaaaay too wasted!

But even as jovial and merry a Christmas Party can be, that is not to say that there aren't any unwritten rules to follow, particularly when it comes to an office Christmas Party.

Read on to find out the low-down on Office Xmas Party Etiquette.

[RELATED ARTICLE: Your Christmas Gift Guide For The Man In Your Life]

RULE NUMBER ONE:

DO look effortless and chic in a statement black dress, coupled with minimal accessories, killer heels, and finished off with a daring red lip for just a bit of sexy!

RULE NUMBER TWO:

DON'T look trashy in a dress that is way too tight and way too short that you can't even bend over without your knickers showing! Remember, this is a work parry and not a night out on the pull with your friends.

RULE NUMBER THREE:

DO treat this as a mini networking event with your other coworkers and DO remember to be social and go talk to the guys from the other department, you never know, there could be a better position opening up soon that you might wanna be considered for, so mingling with others and creating new work-buddies might stand to your favor some day.

RULE NUMBER FOUR:

For the love of God, DO NOT, I repeat, DON'T hook up with the guy from the Marketing Department, because this is only going to come back and bite you in the ass!

Everyone's gonna know about it, it'll be talked about for months on end and, worse, it won't reflect favorably on you. So don't do it!

RULE NUMBER FIVE:

Even though this is a party, DO remember to uphold yourself professionally and remember that your boss might be keeping an eye on you.

RULE NUMBER SIX:

DON'T get waaaaaaaaay too drunk that your boss feels obligated to get you on the next taxi before it's even 11pm

RULE NUMBER SEVEN:

DO have fun and celebrate that all expense paid, night out with your work buddies. I mean, how often will you drink a bottle of bubbly for free?!

So have fun!

[RELATED ARTICLE: 5 Ways To Earn Extra Cash This Xmas Season]

Over to you now - what are some of your Must-Follow Office Xmas Party Do's and Don'ts?

Let us know in the comments section below.

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THE 7 HOTTEST BOOTS TO BUY FROM TOPSHOP RIGHT NOW!

AUTUMN/WINTER FASHION November 03, 2017

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THE IMPORTANCE OF NARROWING DOWN A NICHE AND FOCUS FOR YOUR BLOG

BLOGGING & TIPS October 26, 2017

Would you agree that having a niche and a specific focus for your blog is THEE number one criteria for ensuring blogging success, and yet a lot of us bloggers simply glance over that aspect of our blogs like it doesn't matter or have a huge bearing on how well our blogs do - well it does!

Because here's the thing: choosing a niche for your blog is that one move that will give your blog a focus and direction whilst also giving you - the Blog's Editor a clear anchor from which to create content from because you'll be clear on WHAT kind of content to create because you'll know from the word "go" WHO you're creating it for! And that's invaluable, especially when it comes to planning your content calendar for the week, month or even for the year!

DEFINING THE TERM NICHE

But before delving into the importance of narrowing down a niche for your blog, you may be wondering: "What do you mean blogging niche?"

Well, allow me to explain!

A blogging niche is a focus or direction that your blog is geared towards. It's a barometer that determines WHO and WHAT your blog is all about without necessarily having to spell it out!
A blog with a great niche should instinctively resonate with its intended readership from the get go! That's how you know you have a great niche - when your blog's reader can relate to something that your blog is about!

HOW TO COME UP WITH A NICHE

The best way to choose a niche is to be super specific about 1) WHO you are here to help, 2) HOW you help those you help and lastly 3) WHY you help those you help!

Get those 3 criteria right and you'll be well on your way to having a niche blog that speaks to your ideal reader.

It's actually very similar to defining your blog's brand identity, which makes sense because your blog's niche is, and should be part of your blog's branding!

WHY IT'S IMPORTANT TO NARROW DOWN YOUR BLOG'S NICHE

So now that we know we've defined what a blogging niche is, here's why it's so important to have one narrowed-down...

REASON 1:

Having a clear niche for your blog will help you attract your ideal readers - which is great for improving your site's google ranking position. Plus it's great for ensuring you have return visitors to your site because your readers will have/feel this intrinsic affinity with what your blog content is all about - and that is key!

REASON 2:

Having a niche narrowed down will help you know how to monetize your blog - especially if you want to create things like E-courses, webinars, Ebooks, etc. as you'll know EXACTLY WHO to be creating your E-Products for, and that's invaluable!

Maybe you've thought about it but are not quite sure what kind of products to create for your readers?! Then take a peek at our "Create With Faith Blog Shop" HERE for a bit of creative inspiration!

[RELATED ARTICLE: How To Monetize Your Blog Using Affiliate Marketing Hacks]

REASON 3:

Similar to reason number 1 above, a niche blog always resonates with its readers to the point that it compels them to be super engaged with the blog by way of leaving blog comments, as well as connecting with your blog on social media channels - which is amazing, especially if you hope to leverage yourself - the Blog Editor as an Influencer and reach out to Brands for Sponsorship opportunities!

If maybe you're not quite sure how to leverage your blog for Brand Sponsorship opportunities, then look-up this post on How To Be An Influencer And Attract Brand Sponsorship Opportunities.

STILL THINK YOU DON'T HAVE YOUR NICHE DEFINED? TRY ANSWERING THESE QUESTIONS TO REALLY NARROW DOWN YOUR BLOG'S NICHE

QUESTION 1)

In an ideal world, what would I like to write about? This may seem like a simple question,but you've no idea how eye-opening it could be, because the answer to that question will be the beginning of your true passion and what your blog should really be about if it so resonates with its intended readers!

QUESTION 2)

What do I have experience doing?
The best blogs are written by people with past or current experience doing what the blog topic is all about, because here's the thing about blogging: a great blog, at it's core, should first and foremost be a resource for learning/and or entertaining! That's what blogging success stems from - and using your knowledgeable experience in narrowing down your blog's niche certainly come in handy in attracting your ideal tribe! So use your experience to help you define your blog's niche.

QUESTION 3)

What kind of people do I see myself writing for or connecting with through my blog? As in: who is my ideal reader? How old is (s)he? How much do they earn?, etc.
Determining the demographic (ie a certain type of people) you see yourself helping or connecting through your blog will help you know what content to write and produce, plus, it'll be great for partnering with brands for sponsorship opportunities because they'll know what your blog is catered towards. Just don't forget to create a Blog Media Kit and your "Blogger CV" when reaching out to Brands because the'll want to see them before they offer you sponsorship!

Don't have media kit or a blogger CV/Resume??? Go to our Create With Faith Blog Shop - HERE and check out our Lauren Lancaster Blog Kit Package and our "L|M Blogger CV/Resume.

QUESTION 4)

What am I feeling is lacking in the blogosphere?

Now, this can be a tricky question to answer, but recognizing a need to fill is a great way to really create a niche blog because you'll be filling a gap in the market.

For instance, instead of focusing your blog on just fashion,it could be fashion for the plus-sized, middle-aged women who've undergone and survived cancer and now they want to use fashion to really embrace their femininity again and feel beautiful!

Do you see what I mean by filling a need in the blogosphere?!

[RELATED ARTICLE: 5 Steps To Make A Career From Blogging]

Now, I hope these tips were super helpful to you - if you have any thoughts, I'd love to hear them in the comments section below.

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HOW TO WEAR YOUR CHUNKY KNIT LIKE A PRO' BLOGGER THIS WEEKEND

AUTUMN/WINTER FASHION October 17, 2017

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Who here is feeling the chill in the air all of a sudden? I'm not sure if it's just me, or if withstanding Ex-Hurricane Ophelia yesterday has kind of made me a little less resilient to cooler weather, but I woke up this morning definitely feeling the chill in the air for sure, and as a result, grabbed my chunky knit for that instant warmth and comfort!

It's crazy what this weird weather can do to you, hey?!

One minute it's warm and sunny, and the next the whole country is forced into a complete halt as we were all bracing ourselves for Ex-Hurricane Ophelia here in Ireland!

But I'm glad to report that even though there were considerable structural damage incurred, and,of course, still saddened by the unprecedented loss of lives (3 victims), we all came out of it a bit unscathed, as compared to what has happened in other countries due to these insane hurricanes!

So with the weather increasingly transitioning from sunny summer into chilly autumnal weather, I'm thinking that it's definately time to take those transitional pieces out of the closet and put them to good use again - and that's where the chunky knit comes in!

And today I'm looking to Pro- Fashion Bloggers for a bit of fashion inspo', because if there's anyone who knows how to wear a chunky knit and still make it look effortlessly stylish, it's those Pro Fashion Bloggers.

So take a look below for that much-needed fashion inspo!

photo Dulceida

The simplest way to wear a chunky knit during this transitional weather is to take a white chunky knit and team it up with black skinnies and a black jacket so as to let the white chunky knit stand out as your hero piece!

I love the way that Dulceida from www.dulceida.com has styled her white chunky knit!

photo Dulceida

She kept everything simple by going for a monochrome colour palette! So pairing it with those black leatherette skinnies and a black bomber jacket was kind of a practical yet stylish option!

photo Dulceida

Though I have to say, this would've been just another ordinary outfit had she not opted for the accessories she chose!

Love the hat! Its a a very fashion-focused,yet practical accessory for sure,especially in this unpredictable autumnal weather we've been experiencing as of late!

SHOP SIMILAR STYLES

by FIGTNY

Another way to wear a chunky knit is to stick to the monochrome theme, but this time go for the "All Black Everything" look with an oversized chunky knit like Lee Parrino from www.figtny.com did!

by FIGTNY

An oversized knit has been in vogue for at least the last 2 years and for good reason!

It's a practical option to wear for those baltic winter days, but it's also rather appropriate for this chilly autumnal weather - just don't wear the oversized wool coat like Lee did - save it for when you really really need it!

To style an oversized knit,you can either treat it as a dress and wear thick tights/stockings underneath it, or you can style it the Pro-Blogger way, and pair it with black leatherette skinnies, and black leather ankle boots for that seamless look which is sure going to elongate you and make you look tall(er)!

SHOP SIMILAR STYLES

And there you have it! Your guide to styling AND wearing your chunky knits this weekend!

But tell me, which of these two ways to styling your chunky knit did you like?

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STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO YOUR FRIENDS AND DO THESE 5 THINGS INSTEAD

CULTURE October 09, 2017

How to stop comparing yourself to your more successful friends - FAITHFULLY ME MEDIA

Most millennials, if prompted, will attest to the fact that they've secretely compared themselves against their more successful friends at one point or another in their lives!

They may not be happy to admit that they've done it, but most of us, if prompted, can admit to feeling like we just don't measure up in the success stakes after over-analysing and over-comparing ourselves to our seemingly more successful friends who just seem to have it all.

And by have it all I mean, they seem to have the job (that you want) , the car (that you wish you had), the cool apartment (you pray you could afford to have, or even the guy (that you kinda wish was into you )!

You see, living in age of young over-achievers (case in point: Forbes list of 30 under 30) doesn't make it easy for us millennials. And
It's worse if you're the "unsuccessful friend" who's part of a peer group that just seems to excel at EVERY. SINGLE. THING. and there you are - stuck in a minimum wage job, barely affording rent, and not knowing how on earth are you going to pay the electricity bill this month, let alone find money to chip-in towards ANOTHER one of your friend's extravagant birthday gift?!

So, if you're that friend who just can't seem to stop playing the comparison game with those friends who seem that little bit more successful than you and then feeling super awful over it, here's what to do instead...

How to stop comparing yourself to your more successful friends

1/5 ALWAYS KEEP THIS SIMPLE TRUTH IN MIND:

You may not be where you want to be with your life, career, or relationship status, but trust the timing of your life and know that everything eventually everything works out in the end. That means stop putting so much pressure on yourself and wishing you could be this or that! Stay present, and mindful of the fact that it will all work-out in the end if you keep working hard towards your idea of success.

2/5 FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE AND YOUR LIFE GOALS

Keep a journal of all the goals you'd like to achieve and focus on that. Doing so will give you a sense of purpose and help you feel like you're working towards something worthwhile. Plus it'll also make you stop focusing on all the things you think you're missing out on. It'll help you to stop feeling like a failure, because you'll be too busy working on bringing your goals to fruition!
With that in mind, we've included a FREE GOALS WORKSHEET ready for you to download so as to help you jot down your goals and stay focused on "You" and your life! You can download the worksheet at the end of this article.

FREE GOALS WORKSHEET FROM Faithfully Me Media

3/5 CELEBRATE OTHERS' SUCCESS

Try to celebrate your friends successes and genuinely try to be happy for every success that your friends gain.
Doing so is not only the friendly thing to do, but it's also the most mature way of dealing with the fact that yes you may not be where you thought you'd be, but at least you're working towards something you truly want for yourself.

4/5 PRACTICE GRATITUDE

You may or may not realize this: but actively seeking out things to be grateful for will make you appreciate your life that much more whilst also helping you to create more opportunities for you to be grateful for, thus attracting only good vibes in your life!

5/5 REDEFINE YOUR IDEA OF SUCCESS

Make it a point to define "YOUR IDEA" of what success truly is because here's the thing: success comes in many different shapes and sizes!
Having 5 cars, 3 holiday homes, and one super yacht may one person's idea of success, but to someone else, just having a job that they are passionate about that happens to makes a huge difference in other people's lives might be their idea of success.
So, take the time to really think about what true success looks like to you and abandon society's warped idea of success.

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And there you have it! Your 5 simple hacks to combating comparing yourself to your "successful friends"!

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